Open Question: When you strike up a conversation with someone, what is the proper amount of time to wait before you divulge?

[feedcrawler]

the fact that you've got a foot fetish? I'm on Plenty of Fish right now, and this guy IM's me, like hi, how are you, blah, blah, blah. So then he asks me if I have nice feet. I lie and say "Sure, they're alright" (I'm not telling him I've got a freaking fungus), and then he says "I LOOOOOOOVE FEET, I have a fetish". This was approximately 20 seconds into the conversation. WHAT on earth possesses someone to toss something like that into a conversation?

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