Open Question: How open should you be with someone about what you find sexually attractive?

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I'm gay. I've never been in a relationship with another guy. I have a foot fetish. The appearance/smell/feeling of guy's feet is a turn on. But do partners tend to be pretty open minded with exploring this kind of thing?... Do they go along with it? Or do things like this ususally stay separate as unrelated sexual interests? Do you tell a partner what's a turn on for you? Only one answer was helpful-ish last time... Trying again...

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