Open Question: Who should I choose/What should I do?

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There are 4 guys, first two like me second two I'm not sure.1. A guy I met a few weeks ago, and he asked me out on the first day we met. He is gross, and he swears all the time, is really perverted, and I'm a vegetarian and when we eat together he eats his burger or whatever slowly and exaggerated in front of me. By text, he professes his love for me and tells me how beautiful I am, but also has a foot fetish and wants me to text him a picture of my feet, which I won't do. He also can't get over this other girl, and calls her a b**** in public but over the phone he tells me how much he misses her. He's in ROTC. He also eats like a pig, and did I mention he's disgusting?2. I am white and this second guy is black. He recently moved to my town from Africa, and calls me 10 times a day almost. He's nice, but I have to talk to his brother on the phone because I can't understand this guy's accent! He also believes he is in love with me, and says I'm breaking his heart.3. I've liked this guy for a few years. I first met him on my speech team, and he's very entertaining. He is Indian, and he can be very rude sometimes(not to me), but can be very sweet to girls. He talked to this one girl one the phone while she was crying because she was fighting with her bf, and comforted her, even though she's from a rival team. Sometimes he talks about wanting sexy girls, (I'm not really) and can be occasionally sexist but he is also very protective of girls. He's also into political discussions. Based on his personality, please tell me what you think I should do to help him to like me more than a friend. He's a year older. I stink at flirting, and I don't know if I should just be natural or try to impress him at first, then let him get to know me.4. I've met this one recently. Our friendship started when his team rode with my team (speech) on the bus to a tournament, and we stopped to eat. I ate with him and a younger kid. He is white and very nice, in ROTC, but he's three years older. He dropped a hint though, but also sounded joking: "Hey, need a boyfriend?" when he questioned me as to whether I have one and I said no. I kind of blew it off at first but now I'm curious. He seems like a sweet guy, pretending to be gruff. I'm very petite, and he's a lot bigger! He also lent me the most banned book in America, it's called, "The Perks of Being a Wallflower." but of course he gave me many warnings about it first. He also has a nice sense of humor.Please tell me what to tell the first two; I don't really like them, but I've tried to let them down gently and the first is starting to get it but the second just keeps telling me I'm breaking his heart. He won't get the hint, well, message, and I even told him I like someone else. The other two I like, the 4th is more likely, but I really like the third. They are both really great guys. If you can tell me any tips for flirting and/or which guy you would choose, I would be EXTREMELY grateful!!!!! Thanks!

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