Open Question: How to get over these fears in a relationship?

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i m 33 yr old man. met a girl through somekind of a blind date arranged by a friend of mine. the girl isreally pretty.. and we have a connection through character and personalitites... but i dont know why i m afraid... i have been single almost all of my life.. this could be the first time i have a mutual connection with another girl i like.. dont know what i m afraid of sometimes i m afraid that i have to give explanations for my career decision to another one.. kind of decisions i used to take carelessly no matter how it will affect me.. based on my ego.. now i feel this will not work.. ego will not be my main reason for any career decision as i has another one in my life who will be affected by my dicisions.. afraid she /or her family will judge me and judge my success... as i m not that well-established.. and still doing my post-graduate studies.. and a number of colleagues are much successful than i am.. also in love... i feel embaracced of telling her my addiction to foot fetish.. and that i would like to spend hours kissing her feet.. she might think i m crazy.. i know there are many ppl like me.. but socially wise this sometimes viewed as freaks habits in love making.. what do u think?? how to over come these fears?

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