Open Question: Foot fetish.. reversed? Would this be fair?

[feedcrawler]

Normally when you hear foot fetish, you think of the guy having it right? But on my situation, it's the other way around: my girlfriend is the one with a foot fetish-y thing. Were both 19 and we have a pretty active sex life. We have sex about 2-3 times a week (sometimes more, sometimes less). Well, whenever we have sex, she always wants to do me with her feet and it's kinda.. out there. Don't get me wrong, she has beautiful feet, but it's just not my thing, So until now, I've told her no and haven't let her. But I'm not being a d*ck about it either, just totally dismissing it or anything. When we have sex, she'll often put her feet near my face and I know what she wants. I'll just grab her feet and massage or suck them for a couple seconds and then put her foot to the side lol So I guess you can say I'm at least being a bit supportive of it. Every time during foreplay she'll have this look, like she desperately wants to do that. Now I'm not arrogant. I know, a fetish is a fetish. You can't deny it. You can try to hide it, but that's about all you really can do. But do you think it would be fair if I was to sit with her and talk about maybe finding some common ground about our sex life. Both give and take a little. Perhaps something along the lines of me being fine with her fetish and go along with it, let her do her thing, if she'll consider letting me have my "fetish" (3sum [with another girl of course])? Or do you think I'm being ridiculous? I just want some opinions. I'm still thinking about this and I'd love to hear opinions before talking with her. And please, try not to start insulting me.

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