Open Question: Foot Fetish and Confidence?

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There are a number of posts dealing with having a foot fetish. Having a foot fetish has enhanced the quality of my life and my relationships with women. I became a nationally certified reflexologist and I graduated from nail technology school. During that time I have worked on hundreds of female feet and met women I never would have met otherwise. Based on conversations I have had with literally hundreds of women, there is nothing wrong with having a foot fetish. Quite the contrary, many women love shoes, pedicures and foot rubs and if you can indulge a lady in this area you can achieve a level of intimacy very quickly. What is damaging most of all is how a man might feel about having a foot fetish. If you feel "dirty" or perverted then your self esteem will plummet and you will live in fear that if a woman should discover your foot fetish then she will also tell her friends and you will suffer embarrassment. If you do not accept yourself fully for who you are then she will pick up on that lack of confidence. I would not announce on a first date but eventually, you should be honest because you want to be able to share this important aspect of your being with her. Who knows what she is into? I have also found that in dealing with that energy in a positive way that having a foot fetish is actually a very small part of who I am. If Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise had a raging foot fetish I doubt that fact would keep many women from changing their minds about how attracted they are to these men. My question is how many women would turn down a man who is attractive, educated, has a great career and satisfies her in many other ways just because that man had an attraction to her feet? If women would be so disturbed by a man with a foot fetish, then tell me... Why do so many women spend time and money getting pedicures and wearing uncomfortable shoes? I think women do realize that men find their feet attractive and there is nothing wrong with acknowledging this.

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