Open Question: Entering the BDSM role playing world (as a new dominant)?

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i have done some role playing online, but always as the submissive female to a dominate male. I am now interested in playing a dominant female, with a submissive female. I have played a dominant role once, but i was very familiar and comfortable with this person (sense they knew i was usually a sub). I have currently taken on the role of a dom female to a sub female, but im feeling slightly stuck as how to play the role well and confidently.any suggestions? (she has a foot fetish) examples? and where do you find more people in the BDSM world?

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