Open Question: Who is wrong in an open marriage? (perfer answers from the ladies)?

[feedcrawler]

I am weeks before I go to trail for my divorce. My soon to be ex-wife and I had a semi-open marraige where we dated other people, (if she or myself were not available). I later found out she was bi-sexual, (through her admittance), and had indulged in oral sex with other women. I however have a foot and leg fetish and had hidden videos of women giving me foot jobs and masturbating, (Which she found), I personally have apoligized for my wrong doing and wished to move forward. She feels because 1 of the tapes were taken at our home I betrayed her and she cannot forgive me which has lead to divorce. I wished to remain her friend throughout but she insists I should feel the overwhelming burdon of unfaithfulness though she feels her transgressions do not equal mine. Could YOU forgive and forget under these circumstances and move on with the marriage, or do you----like her feel I am a "D0g" ?(I really need serious answers)

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