Open Question: for women only?

[feedcrawler]

I wanted to ask. I met this woman on line and we met up and went on one date and everything went fine and she was pretty and had a great personality but I told her I didn't think she was the one for me. She called me the next day and wanted to know why. She is a little on the chubby side which is ok but she has thick ankles and I have a big foot fetish which this is a turn off for a guy like me. I really liked everything else about her. a friend told me I should just ask her if she was willing to do exercise to shape her legs better and shrink her ankles. I try to take care of my self and look my best and would do things to make myself more attractive to my mate. Is it wrong to ask her to do this for me?

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