Open Question: Is smoking pot a dealbreaker?

[feedcrawler]

My ex husband and I broke up 3 years ago.One issue was that he smokes pot daily and I never do. I started to really hate spending my evenings with someone who is stoned every night. He wants to get back together and remarry. He is an awesome guy in many ways but the pot really bugs me.I cant explain why. It just turns me right off. He is not interested in quiting,he doesnt think its a big deal and that I should just accept it as part of him. He is the same guy who wouldnt date or be with a woman if she didnt have nice feet. He has a foot fetish he cant explain. ( I have nice feet..lucky himLOL) I try to use that as an exampleofhow I feelabout pot.He gets it but doesnt think its the same. Has anyone else dealt with this issue? What are some thoughts?

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