I should have also stated in my first writing that I've only recently begun to check up on him, after finding out some things. He does go out of his way to look at women, following them when they walk, looking up skirts whenever there's a chance. Even friends have noticed and yet he denies,denies, denies. He says he loves me, and I am anything but a prude in the bedroom. I give him all the loving he wants and more. He's completely happy there. I wait on him hand a foot and meet his needs even before he knows he has a need. I'm not ugly and I am a wonderful, kind person. Yet he makes everything about HIM. We have been to counseling and when it got too into HIM, he bailed out. I hope those of you that answered will have a more clear picture now. I can add more if I need to but will close for now. Thanks

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