My gf and I are both in grad school and have side jobs as well. So she gets home dead tired and one of our daily rituals has become an hour or so before bed when I rub her feet. She has told me countless times how much she appreciates me doing this. The thing is I have a foot fetish and I love this ritual. Is it fair that I am having "sex" with her without her knowledge? Is this cheating?

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