We're both 19. He's gay. I'm not. We're very close. We talk about A LOT of things most people don't discuss with their best friends. I wanted to know what/who it was that he actually found attractive. (Which... was I right in asking, or is that uncomfortable for him...?), and he revealed that he has a pretty major foot fetish among other things. I'm secure enough and comfortable enough to know he doesn't want me, and his sexuality.. doesn't phase me. He can love whoever he wants to love. It's not his choice. I just want him to be happy. But as someone with certain fetishes myself, I know these things can transcend people you're "interested" in. He may not want me, but he may be attracted to the idea of my feet. I've done things like push him away with my feet before (we were wrestling..). Are things like this probably going to be a turn on even though he's not interested in dating me? I'm not going to stop wrestling with him. That would be treating him differently because of his orientation... Which is wrong. I just don't know if I need to really watch what SPECIFICALLY I do (i.e... anything involving my legs/feet...)
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