Open Question: What do I do about strange fetish that is ruining marriage?

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I saw my wife get picked up and carried over the shoulder of a short obese girl at a party. At the time she was wearing a short skirt and high heels and was almost a foot taller than the fat girl that scooped her up. She carried my wife around the house and my wife was horrified and very upset. For some reason that I cannot explain I was very turned on by seeing such a short fat girl walking around with my wife over her shoulder. I even have my wife talk about the experience. I feel horrible for feeling this way but I cannot for the life of me figure out how to cope. I am so turned on by seeing a fat girl taking control of a taller sexy girl.

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