Open Question: Are you an evaluative thinker? If so, do you have an answer?

[feedcrawler]

Situation: My fiance has a foot fetish and would like me to wear my shoes until he gets home after work so he can be the one to take them off. However, at times I would like to take them off to be able to lounge around the house. I would like to make him happy but if he gets home he gets upset if I do not have my shoes on. I told him we could compromise 50-50 but he is not happy with that. Any suggestions on how to make this work? Please do not reply back with "Foot fetishes are weird". It is something that he enjoys and something that he wants. I just want to figure out a way to make this work. Is it a sign of my selfishness that I do not want to be uncomfortable in order to make him happy? What do you think should be done out of love for someone else?When we get home at the same time and he wants me to stay in them a couple of hours before he takes them off.

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