Open Question: How can I make it work with a contact who has a foot phobia, while I have a foot fetish?

[feedcrawler]

I feel he's going to pull the rug out from under me. Like we don't have a leg to stand on. Like we're dancing with 2 left feet. Like every time we go a step forward, we actually take 2 steps back.*cries, throws a glass of wine against the wall, and racks up 15 grand in shoes in eBay*

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