I am a chinese guy and have been into this foot fetish for many years, only my wife knows my little secret, I regard myself as a good and responsible guy. Few days back in cinema, a girl sitting beside me was taking her sandal heels off & start brushing my ankle & shoes, I looked at her, she's pretty, I thought she was initiating a footsie game so I extended my foot and let her did that for nearly 20 min. Then she stopped, put her shoes on, I brushed back her ankles, to my surprise she looked down with a tiny torch equipped in her phone, and mumbling something to her boyfriend, oh man I was wrong, I thought we were having footsie but apparently she thought she was just brushing 'her shoes'. I felt so embarrased. I love my wife so much. We have sex regularly and I know she's satisified with that, only thing she didn't know was that I keep flashing back to the incidents of footsie game I had during the making. Am I fine? Should I seek helps from therapist or counsellor? Guys, I'm asking for proper advice, not sarcastic comments. If you have nothing better to say than "idiot, kicking ass, get an english course", you have more serious problems than me. I am glad I don't have to make myself higher than one who came for advice, by making fun on his problems. To gamerwench: No I don't think the girl was offended at all, she didn't say anything except mumbled quickly with her bf. She even smiled (at me quickly) after movie finished. So I think she wasn't really angry at me.
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