I'm a 25 year old Catholic woman who has been dating a wonderful man for the past several months. I enjoy doing everything with him, but early on he told me about a foot fetish he developed about 5 years ago. I tried to be open-minded about it but the more I tried to be the more repulsed I became. Objectifying someone's feet for sexual gratification totally disgusts me, and I told him that I was sorry and would not give in to his fetish. He said it would be okay, that he wouldn't ask to have sex while staring at the soles of my feet. Then this morning, I had to hop on his computer for something and discovered that he's been looking at fetish porn sites on pretty much a daily basis when he is with me! In fact, we spent about 5 days together and when I happened to step out for about an hour, he decides to look up one of his favorite foot porn websites. Other than this perverted habit, I really love him as a person. Should I say something again? I am afraid I'm going to resent him for this. And granted, although I am Catholic I do have monogamous sex, and only while in a serious relationship. It's not like I'm a total prude!
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