Open Question: Boyfriend has a shoe fetish?

[feedcrawler]

I have discovered that my boyfriend (i'm also a guy) has a fetish for men's skater shoes. At first when i found out about it i was just confused but i learned to accept it. I found out that when he masturbates, he watches videos of people wearing these shoes. It doesnt even show the people, just their feet with the shoes on them. So while i fantasize about my boyfriend, he fantasizes about these pieces of plastic. Also, i found he has a whole youtube account with videos of shoes, and i was on his facebook and he has been messaging guys from his school to buy shoes from them. It hurts me so so so bad that he doesn't find me attractive enough to masturbate to. Just the thought of fantasizing about a piece of plastic creeps me out. Also, he can ejaculate after three minutes when thinking about shoes but when it's just me, it takes him like 20 mins. sorry if all this is too much information. BASICALLY i'm asking: is it wrong of me to be hurt by this? i asked him if he could stop, but he hasnt. it's been 4 months. What should he do if he should stop? see a psychologist or something? I've tried being supportive but it hurts me too much.

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