Open Question: How much porn is ok in a relationship?

[feedcrawler]

I have been with my man for 1 1/2 years and we have had one major issues (besides his mother) and it is porn. I believe porn in a relationship is cheating but he does not. He watches porn a few times a week and relieves himself to it and then does not want sex with me. I feel it is cheating for this reason: I am left horny but he has already gotten off to someone else. I wouldn't bother me as much if he had a weird fetish (such as getting a "foot job") or something else that I would not do, but he has told me the porn he watches is ccertain actresses. HE TOLD ME THAT HE LIKES GETTING OFF TO CERTAIN OTHER WOMEN. He had told me he stop watching porn (because I told him I had trouble trusting him because of it but then a few months ago our computer was broke so I went on his work laptop to do school work and it was full of porn. He told me then he would stop watching it. I believed him and there was no proof for awhile that he still watched porn. The internet history was commonly cleared but I just ignored it and tried to trust him. Then today I went on the computer and he had a bunch of porn on it. Am I wrong to be bothered by this? I have been in relationships with guys who watched porn and I was okay with it since it was a certain act that was watched. This guy likes to watch other women though and it hurts me. Knowing this he still does not stop. Am I wrong to be upset?

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