Open Question: how should i ask a girl this and is it wrong of me to want this? girls please answer?

[feedcrawler]

right now i am going out with this girl who always puts me down and makes me feel like shit. we have been arguing a lot latley and are currently taking a break from our relationship. i still intend on getting back together with her because i have a newborn son of 3 weeks. one of my friends... we'll call him "J" J is friends with this lesbian who i just met today. right now her "fiancee" is in ja!l. she is worried about her and says she is her "everything" i'm going to say right now (and i know i'm going to take a lot of heat probably for this) i have a foot fetish. latley right now my current girlfriend (taking a break) we havent been able to do anything for a long time that would be deemed as "sexual" but this new lesbian chick is really cute, and since we are taking a break would it be wrong of me to ask her if she would like a foot massage or to suck her toes? and second if i did ask her, what would be the best way of doing it? i wouldnt have to suck her toes to be satisfied, just a barefoot massage would make me happy. but to all girls out there if you were a lesbian, would you leta straight guy suck your toes or just simpily give you a foot massage? and also is it wrong of me to actually try to do something like this with another girl even if i have the intentions of getting back with my girlfriend with a baby in the picture? would it be ok to do something minor like this? and if so, what would be the best way of going about it? i know this is a lot of questions but its really confusing. i'm 18 years old and please dont troll or say " its disgusting" or that i'm a horrible father or anything like that i love my little man! so basically i am asking this... ***TO ALL LESBIANS (and girls)*** 1. if your fiancee was in ja!l and you missed her a lot would you let a straight guy give you a foot massage? (with no socks) 2. would you feel weirded out if he asked you? 3. is it wrong for me (as a guy) to want to do this? 4. if i have a strong intention to get back with my girlfriend, and we are taking a break, would it be wrong for me to go through with it? i would probably just massage, but the farest it would go would be sucking her toes. and the chance of that is really slim. 5. what would be the smoothest way (without upsetting her) of asking her if she would be okay with that? PLEASE HELP I AM NOT A TROLL AND I'M CONFUSED AS HELL.

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