Resolved Question: Why my boyfriend wants to mastrabate instead of having sex with me?

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My boyfriend and I have a great relationship but sex is an issue. I want sex a lot but he says that he doesn't have a sex drive. I know he's masturbating but he won't admit it. We both have had self esteem issues and I especially do when he makes excuses of why we don't have sex but will go in the bathroom the next morning and "take care of himself". We have sex maybe once or twice a month. I've tried to be sexy in front of him, do romantic things, and now I'm out of resources. I feel we could use some counseling. We've both had some rough things in our past so we'd like to move on in our future together but are having a bit of a hard time getting past some things. I wanna trust him and know he's being honest with me but right now I just don't know...I know he has masturbated but he won't admit it. I love him with all my heart and I know he loves me but this is just an issue that we need help in. I know he's not cheating on me. As for looking at things on the internet, I don't know. We need help and I need help as far as what I should do about this. I wanna talk to him but I don't know how to do it or say it.

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