Open Question: When is the right time to come out and why do i feel this way? Not a joke please help?

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ok im bi and i want my family to know but my dad and bro are homophobes and im 17 by the way im still living with mom and dad and my whole family is close and and we have family get togethers often and nobody else in my family is bi or gay so i feel everone will think im gross or wierd and i dont want to be like this because i feel embarressed and disgusted in myself but im really strongly attracted to men and idk if i should wait to come out when im living on my own or do it now cuz i dont want ppl to tease me and to top it off i have a certain fetish........well u know how some people have like a foot fetish???? well i like men 40 years or more because they are so hot to me idk y and it makes me feel soooo embarressed and my closet is getting more and more deppressing and i was wondering if it is better just to come out????? well thats my story and i just want ur opinion on 1st.......Do u think i should come out?2nd......How old were you when u came out?3rd.......How has ur life changed?4th.......Do u have a weird fetish?5th.......Have u ever felt this way u know embarressed and digusted?and lastly6th.......Would u or were u able to change to straight?

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