Open Question: How to be more controlling?

[feedcrawler]

i am in this arrangement where I'm suppose to be dominant(and he's obviously a submissive) and controlling kind of and "tease" him into getting the things i want (buying me stuff). I'm not really sure how to go about it because this is new to me. theres no sex involved, he just has a foot fetish. any tips or advice would help! and if you have mean comments you can keep them to yourself!

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