Open Question: My boyfriend has a foot fetish but NEVER wants sex?

[feedcrawler]

Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months, at the beginning of our relationship we talked about sex but we both agreed that we were going to wait. He was a virgin so I told him that whenever he was ready I would be too. So he has a foot fetish, he loves me to step on stuff with my shoes and it really turns him on so since we decided we wanted to wait for sex he would just watch me step on things and he would wack off to it. Okay well 7 months into our relationship we decided to have sex, it was his first time and it wasn't my first but it was my first time that I actually loved someone with. It was very emotional, we both ended up crying and holding each other because of how much we loved each other and it was beautiful well now I'll try to make this as short as possible, he doesn't want to do it anymore, he said that it feels really good but everytime I bring it up he's always like I'm tireddd or I don't feel like it or sometimes he just ignores me!! I feel so unwanted because he won't have sex with me but he still wants me to step on stuff with my shoes to please him, I've talked to him but he says that theres nothing wrong with me I'm beautiful to him but he doesn't give me a direct reason as to why he always has an excuse..I'm getting so frustrated and hurt because I just feel like it's all about him and my self esteem is going down the tubes any advice pleasee

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