Open Question: Is it degrading for a man to massage a woman's feet?

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Say that this guy & girl are just "friends" and are not having sex. But they hang out a lot, and every time they sit on the couch to watch TV or talk, she puts her feet in his lap and expects a massage. And while this guy doesn't particularly mind feet (as long as they're clean), he's not one of those foot fetish guys, so it's not like he's getting to rub boobs or anything special like that. And considering that the girl appears to enjoy this attention on an almost sexual level, wouldn't you think that she'd at least owe the guy the occasional oral sex or something? Would the guy be a chump if he continued to massage this woman's feet on a regular basis? Is he being used?ok you're probably going to say "No way does a foot rub = a BJ"...which sure, I agree with. But if the guy were to throw his feet onto a woman's lap, she'd probably tell him to rub his own damn feet. So what's the tradeoff here?Note: this is a purely hypothetical situation. The male person discussed is in no way me.

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