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Old Apr 5th, 2009, 9:01AM, PDT
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Default Open Question: Do you tell a girl you are dating that you have a fetish (women only please)?

I am not dating anyone. In fact, I am in high school and haven't really gone out with anyone yet. I am new to the whole dating thing. I do have a couple fetishes. Please tell me if you think that they are weird: leg fetish foot fetish I'm not sure if they are actual fetishes since those are parts of the body. But yeah. What do you think? I am 18 if that helps. Let me ask you this. If we were going out, and it was a genuine relationship, would you care if I was turned on by your legs/feet? Would you think it is weird? Would you continue going out with me? The thing is, I'm afraid that my GF will think I'm a weirdo. But, I'm not. It's like a double conflict. On one hand, if I don't tell her, there is a higher chance she will stay with me, but I never get pleasure. On the other hand, I can tell her, but I am risking her leaving me or thinking it is weird, staying with me, but never letting me touch her. Which isn't fun, and I'm going to feel hurt. But on the positive side, if she likes it, then that is great! Also, I am wondering if I don't tell her she will find out anyway. As you can see I'm in a bit of a pickle here. Opinions?

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