I never really knew until a few years ago. I always thought, maybe something happened when I was an !nfant that influenced the rest of my life, but I found just a few years ago that my cousin--very distant cousin, son of my half-aunt, so there's very little relation--has the very same fetish. Relation that distant and yet a coincidence so large leads me to believe that my fetish is at least partially genetic. People can psychologlically obtain a fetish just the same, but I was born with mine and have had it since youth.
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