Open Question: Should I let my boyfriend know that I know about his hidden foot fetish?

[feedcrawler]

I'm 21. I live with my 21 y/o boyfriend. Long story short: I got on my boyfriend's computer to check my email. I have a Mac. He has a PC. I got an email with an attachment I couldn't open, so I wanted to try it on his. I open Internet Explorer, start to type "www.fmgirl.com" to get to my email account. By the time I typed in "www.f" a website came up from his address bar called "www.footster.net." I was curious. I clicked on it. Turns out, it's a foot fetish website.This was a while ago. I've known for months. It's really starting to eat at me. I don't know how to approach him about it. It hurts that he hasn't told me about this before. I'm open to new things. I've tried casually talking about fetishes and giving myself pedicures and buying pretty toe rings, but nothing seems to open him up.So, should I just come out and tell him I know? I don't want him to get mad or think I was snooping. I wasn't! I'm afraid he'll get defensive. What should I do? I hate having secrets.Just to add a bit more detail since I ran out of room:The reason I'm afraid he's going to get mad is because I've looked on his computer since then to see if he's still looking at these sites. It wasn't an accident. Every time I'm gone, it seems like he's watching YouTube videos with girls stretching their feet around and "modeling" them. So if you want to get technical, I HAVE been snooping since I first found out. That's why I'm afraid he's going to get mad. I feel awful about it, but I didn't know what else to do. I couldn't just forget about it and he wouldn't talk to me, so I looked at the same things he looked at in his history. I just want to understand it better!Whenever I mention something about feet or rub my foot on his leg or something like that, he just laughs at me. It hurts so much that I can see him keeping this from me. I love him a LOT and I want to get all of this out in the open!!

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