basically people, have have posted a few quetions on this topic, but it never seems to get resolved. I am a male, 21 yrs old. I guess i could honestly say im a good person, i care about all my family and friends very much, i want to enjoy life, and make people happy. I have never had a girlfriend. I would love to make a girl very happy, and be a good honest boyfriend or husband one day. You know, mabye go out for the occasional drink, but stay in and be cosy and watch a movie, or listen to nice music, and cook her a meal. Even if she didnt want sexual things, i would be fine becuase i would love her so much. heres the problem. I have a foot fetish. As i said, i wouldnt care if we did anything sexual or not (yea it wld be nice, but id honestly be fine without it). Im just proving my point really that i dont just like feet and not the girl. But sooner or later she is going to want sex, cause its normal. And sex. does absolutley nothing for me. Is this normal? or do i need therapy ? EXTENDED- i have never had a girlfrined because of it, im too embarresed about it. how do you tell a girl u like feet? I know people dont understand it, am that i am a freak because of it. but i didnt choose it, i cant control it. i just want to be happy like other people, feet is like what sex is lke to normal people to me. i fear i will be single forever cause of it, when all i want to make someone the happiest girl in the world. i get angry when i see yovng couples happy, cause i know i can never have that, being a foot freak . Would that change ur opinon of me? cause no 1 knows, and they think im nice i guess, but ive never told a sole about it. I have so much love to give but cant. please advice. Live with it, or cure it?
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