Open Question: In need of guidance on revealing a well kept secret to my fiance?

[feedcrawler]

I would like to start by saying please don't tell me how strange I am as I already know this.I have been with my fiance for 3 wonderful years, she is quite the sweetheart and I love her more than anything. As far back as i can remember I have found feet sexually attractive, some would declare this a foot fetish (I disagree as it is not required for me the use of feet to achieve sexual release.) Where I'm reaching out for guidance is my moral conviction on whether I should tell my soon to be wife or not. I am extremely embarrassed about the whole situation, and have always kept it to myself (in all of my friendships/relationships I have refused to ever give an asked for foot message or anything of that nature as it would be something sexually exciting for me unbeknownst to her.) In fact this is the first time I have ever told anyone about my liking to feet. It isn't that I want to tell her for gain of a new sexual encounter, it is simply that we have always been very honest with each other and i feel as though I am hiding something from her. Even if she was willing (which she would be to keep me satisfied) to indulge my desire, I personally would not be comfortable with it as it is just weird, and i wouldn't like putting her in that situation. Any views on how you would take such a statement from a loved one would be greatly appreciated.

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