Open Question: How to man up and break these sex fetishes?

[feedcrawler]

PLEASE READ ALL OF THIS I NEED ACCURATE ANSWERS IT MEANS ALOT. So I have a few sexual fetishes that really turn me on and it really effect my sex life, like I can't get hard for just intercourse with my girlfriend because of my fetishes. And the worst part is my girlfriend likes my fetishes and uses them to her advantages, she still wants sex but my fetishes she enjoys more. but When I'm not horny I want to be in control and i dont like my fetishes. My fetishes: - her being in complete control and dominate - her feet - her useing me for her pleasure a giving me no pleasure - her owning me and me being her "slave" And i recently began to get turned on by the thought of her getting with other guys because I "can't" satisfy her with sex and its getting to point where I really don't like it. I mean on occasion its kindof hot. But i really also want to have a normal type of sex life at times, is it possible to do this? Is it even possible to remove a fetish? My biggest concerns is that we can't have sex cuz im not hard from it because of my fetishes That i don't ever orgasim with her only when i masturbate And that im beginning to be turned on by her being satisfied by other men. I am NOT HAPPY with where my fetishes are going. I like most of my fetishes but the other guys, lack of sexuall pleasure and unsuccessful sex makes me question the fetishes. WHAT DO I DO? PLEASE i really need HELP!!!! I DONT WANT MY SEX LIFE TO BE LIKE THIS. MY GIRLFRIEND IN A SENSE USES ME A A SEX SLAVE FOR COMPLETE PLEASURE AND im NEGLECTED. I HATE IT. i really need help. Please give me advice. I need it. Im a very manly masculane man and i control every aspect of our relstionship ourside of the bed. Its is very strange to and weird to become a sissy and basically be my gf's bitch in bed. It really bothers me bc of how i am outside of the bed.

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