Open Question: How to make anal sex more pleasurable?

[feedcrawler]

I'm 27. Married for two years. I'm incredibly open minded (not in a freaky foot fetish way) but I can't seem to enjoy anal sex. I've done it all:lube, alc0hol, husband is always going really really slow and being patient, me being super relaxed and I even got a small "strecher" thinking size was an issue. I'm frustrated. My husband is average size in length and girth. I can't figure out why I can't enjoy it. It's always so so painful. I feel bad because my husband enjoys it and would like it more frequently, but I can only bear it once or twice a year. I know it's not psychological because I feel like it's not taboo if I'm married, what we do is our business. Any tips? Ideas? Aside from rubbing cocaine on my anus? (lol joke) I would like to find a way without numbing myself(then he would be numb and take twice as long) Thanks!

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