Open Question: A guy with submissive tendencies?

[feedcrawler]

I am a 17 year boy,i am 6 feet and have very tonned body and a nice personality,little shy. But something is wrong with me??? during these years of your life hormones act very wildely and you face several mood swings.i know a typical man is dominant ,agressive and confident.ok so i am confident guy to some extent,a little agressive sometimes but i have a submissive trait instead of dominant one,And unfortunately for opposite gender.I discover this thing when i hit poverty and hated it.Actually i am fine with my friends who are boys,i also have some anger issues and sometimes indulge in fights too.But When i see a women,or if a women talk to me i immediatley turn into a submissive guy and want to serve her as if she is superior to me {i have some fetishes too)but my 'male ego' did not allow me to do that. these two things contradict each other and make me feel even more sad.i mean why a 'real' man would ever want to serve a women.I just want to ask, what i am?? A man or a whimp??.I am trying really hard to ignore all my submissive tendencies but nothing seems to work.i mean if anything like that arouses you sexually, then its really hard to control it,right???? what's your opinion about that guys...and girls please respond?????Thank you in advance

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