Bit the bullet and told my new girlfriend about my foot fetish. I told her because she said that feet freak her out on several occasions, moreso just so she would understand exactly the way my brain thinks! Love her to bits, but on telling her, she told me she wasn't too freaked out by it, but she hasn't brought it up since, nor tried to even make an uneducated guess at what would satisfy my fetish even some bit. The way i have begun to think in recent years is, that this is a part of me that i just can't change, and that i need to have it fulfilled at least some of the time, and that i'm not a freak. I'd safely bet that everone has their own fetish. It's not frowned upon in the male society for a man to like a woman's boobs, but you would be laughed at and called a freak if you liked a woman's feet... My question is, should i try and ease her into getting her to tell me how she feels about it, or should i experiment if she would do things to satisfy me, because she has accidently done it before this (not very hard)? When i say she doesn't like feet, she hates looking at them, but she really (and secretly me too) loves nothing more than a long slow foot massage in the evenings after standing all day at work.. Are there any women out there that have been in a similar situation where a boyfriend has told you he had a foot fetish and you weren't sure... What would the typical approach be for a woman to take having just been told their lover/boyfriend had a foot fetish, like not having any details explained to them, just given the information that their fella had a foot fetish... Sorry if all this seems long winded or hard to read, maybe i could phrase a few bits a bit neater than that...
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