Open Question: Age of consent, 2 different states, 2 people, handjob, no penetration?

[feedcrawler]

Ok, so here's the situation. There's this girl I've been talking to for a few weeks. I randomly told her about my foot fetish and asked if she'd give me a footjob (pretty much a handjob with feet) and she said yes. I haven't actually MET her yet, but we talk on this website MyYearbook (basically like Facebook). She has multiple pictures, and I've asked her to send pictures of her feet so I can confirm she's real and she's sent me quite a few. Well, she lives in another state like 30 minutes away and wants to meet up and do this. I'm the age of consent in my state, and she's the age of consent in HER state, but she's NOT the age of consent in mine. I'm not going to have sex with her but I'm not sure if handjobs, pretty much anything that isn't oral and doesn't involve penetration, is a part of the age of consent. Is it?

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