Open Question: 18+ only! My boyfriend has a foot fetish..but only cares about HIMSELF sexually...help?

[feedcrawler]

My love and I have been together for quite sometime and I love him dearly. This is the man I am spending my life with.When me and him first started dating we were both 19..I had known him for about a year before we started dating..but not on a personal level.Well once we started dating my boyfriend straight up told me that he has a foot/crush fetish.He wanted to make sure I was okay with it...at first I was a little skeptical about it but I accepted him for it..and never found him weird or gross.Okay so at the time I was completely sick of going out with guys that only wanted sex..because I was yovng I didn't want to give it to every guy that I dated..so when I heard about this fetish it was kind of a load off my mind because he was okay with just focusing on my feet and not sex..so in the beginning I would step on bugs for him (please don't judge) and he would just jack off to that and I was okay with it because I wasn't ready to have sex with him yet..well then about 7 months into the relationship I was ready to have sex with him..he was a virgin..it was hard for him to fully get off without the shoes involved somehow. So then we started to get a little bit stressed..until I made a compromise where whenever he wanted to watch me step on something with the shoes I would get sex afterwards..that way we both would be satisfied. That lasted not that long because he would always come up with excuses that he was too tired to have sex..but yet he still wants me to step on something for him. I WANT to make him happy..that's why I was trying to meet him halfway..but he's all about him!! He's always stealing my shoes when I take them off and smelling them and I get so mad at him I just want to hit him because it's like he likes them better than me!I know this sounds crazy...and I know I said in the beginning that I was sick of guys that only wanted sex...but I didn't want someone who didn't want it at all!!Does anyone have any advice?

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